Unhappy Announcement

All readers are aware that I wrote "The TV and His Wife" for the purpose of helping wives to understand. Many of you also know that I've gone to some lengths in individual cases to try to help in situations where non- understanding was breaking things up.

It is naturally therefore, with some embarrassment that I have to say that i am about to enter a divorce my- self. If my marriage had only lasted 3 or 4 years it might be thought that TV was the whole cause. But in my case it has lasted for 11 years. My wife not only knew all about it before marriage, but helped me out in some of the battles I had with my first wife. During these years she has helped me with dressing, bought all sorts of items, done my hair, gone out with me and taken an active part in helping the girls of the Alpha chapter not only to un- derstand themselves but has helped their wives to under- stand too. She was always and still is very interested in the Foundation and what it stands for, so there is no need for anyone to be concerned about security on that score.

In actuality I owe my wife a very great deal for helping Virginia to become what she is today. Had she not allowed Virginia great freedom around the house, participated as she did and helped where she did Virginia would not have been able to develop into the self-suf- ficient and independent personality that she is today. For this I will ever be grateful to her for she helped me to grow into a mature woman able to take care of myself and stand on my own feet.

In view of this therefore it will be obvious that TV of itself is not the sole cause of our breakup as might be thought. Naturally I do not want to wash a lot of family laundry in public, I'm sure you will all understand, but some explanation appears necessary. It takes two to Tan- go and also to divorce which is to say that it is not a case of my being lilly white and she the villian of the piece. No, I am probably not the easiest person to live with, though I've tried. I have naturally contributed my

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